Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Why You May Not Get a Response from a Dating Site

If you feel you are not getting any response to your online profile from a top online dating site, you must be asking yourself what you are doing wrong. Sometimes it is not what you are doing wrong, but what aren't you doing right!

Using a top online dating service is teeming with profiles and you have to do your utmost to make your profile stand head above shoulders over the rest.

How many times have you logged on to a top online dating site and seen the line " I'm the one your mama warned you about." Or how about, " I may be just the one you have been looking for." It may be that you wrote one of those stale lines to someone on a dating site. Depending upon what time of the year it is and what the political situation is stirring up, certain lines are used more often that other. If you want to stand out from the crowd at a dating site, check out what other members are saying. Chances are if you are rolling your eyes, everyone else is.

You may also be sending out failure, loser signals. Just because a person on the other side of the monitor can't see you, they can feel it. Male and female, they are looking for someone who is self confident on a dating site.

If you don't feel confident enough to go against Brad Pitt or George Looney, have no fear. Most women don't expect to meet them when they are using a dating site, but it is good to post a picture. Don't post an idealized picture of what you wished you looked like, but what you really do look like. Just as the ladies don't expect Clooney and Pitt pictures on a online dating site, you shouldn't expect Fergie from the Black Eyed Peas or Elle the Bod McPherson.

If you really want to catch someone's eye, post a picture of you doing something a little strange, out of the ordinary. If you send a picture of you bungee jumping, whoever browses your profile will realize you are a daring person and might be interested in meeting you just on that point alone. There are a number of ways you can catch the eye of lots of people and before you know it, your mailbox will be full of responses and winks and icebreakers.

Why a Romance is possible with Online Dating Services

In this modern world, people have been so hectic with their work that they may not even have the time to start a relationship. And with new technology, people have been buried in their computers and some don’t realize that they could actually find romance in the Internet. Well, this is what we called online dating and people who are too busy can even find romance in the Internet with just a click away.

Over the last few years, there are millions of people who have joined online dating services that could be found everywhere in the Internet. Some of these online dating services are FREE while some require a 1 time or monthly fee. So what are the advantages of joining online dating service? Below are just some examples:

1. Most of the online dating services provide features for members to provide their personal profiles on the Internet. With the number of members increasing over the years, one could access these profiles and find someone that matches their preference.

2. In addition, one can remain anonymous during online dating and have no obligation to meet her/him if she/he is not comfortable with the other party and can stop the online dating immediately.

3. Also, with these tons of profiles available, one can then move on to another new one if the previous online dates are not successful. So, with all the available choices, when one finally finds someone that suits her/him, then she/he can decide to meet offline after they are comfortable with each other during the online dating adventure.

With so many online dating services available on the Internet, which one should a person choose? The PAID or FREE ones?

Well, FREE online dating service may come with a price as most of the members may not be pre-screened and hence the profiles provided may not be genuine. However, with paid online dating services, most of them pre-screen any participants before accepting them as a member. Of course, it can't be guaranteed that all profiles can be verified 100% correct but it will definitely provide a safer environment for members to date online as their members are pre screened and hence providing a better experience than FREE services.

So, even with the hectic life that you have, there is no reason why you can't find romance, as there are so many people out their waiting to be friends and maybe develop into a romantic relationship in these online dating services.